Finding Eve!!


My peaceful noncommittal life is under threat.The disturbance is from within my own family-My dear mom.She wants me to marry a nice ,rich Thiyya (my caste) girl.She is worried I might marry one of the brit girls I work with.Hmmm.....right.I am accused of not listening to a mom's wishes.All the relatives enter the fray echoing similar thoughts.Where is the damn mute button(for them) or the deaf button(for me) in life when you need it.She is worried I will never marry.

Well ,Ive got news for my mother.Yes I am single. Suprisingly-Yes, I am looking for my life partner.Yes, I do know what I am looking for.And what colour/caste/region/religion/status doesnt figure in person specifications.

So, what am I looking for? -I could bore you endlessly with cliches like beauty/brains/humour/pillar of strength and etc etc.Me,I like to keep things simple.All i want is someone whom I would never want to change.The way she is ,the little imperfections don't matter.Because I am not Mr Perfect.

I might or might not get married but at least eitherway,my life will not be the worse for it.

However,i am still a bit old fashioned as you can see from my closing paragraph.
I would never date someone because they look good and yet have no personality. And by the same token, I will not date someone who has a nice personality but I am not attracted to.
In our society being interested in how someone looks seems to get such a bad rap.I didnt say I was a saint.Yes, I want to be attracted to the body suit of the person I spend my life with.

Comments

busy-writer said…
hehe.. im 16 n my parents have already started pullin my leg abt marriage! :( :-p
i felt as if i was readin sum1s "abt me" in a matrimonail site.. hehe :-p
n i agree wid u, i wudnt fall for nyone whos a beauty wid zero personality
Shyama said…
a fellow "thiya"!!! lol... i can imagine what it must be lyk with ur folks hoggin u abt marriage... well... gud luck wid ur quest to find a life partner... tc

- shimmer
Dr Who?!!! said…
a quest!!!..lol...now which dragon do I slay to win the fair maiden?
Shyama said…
lol... not necessarily a quest with a dragon... but maybe a quest filled with romantic love letters, candlelit dinners and lots of conversation... u ready to take on tht much?

- shimmer
Dr Who?!!! said…
love letters are passe..i rather talk openly about my
feelings..candlelit dinners would be replaced by travelling together...lots of conversation is a must,I agree...
manisha said…
didnt find it old fashioned re!!!>.....gud ha!!!!
manisha said…
ash reminds me of aishwarya..he he...sorry...ash unbound!!!

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